Oral Sex Enjoyment

Many people get worried or scared when it comes to participating in oral sex. Questions arise concerning the odor, taste, or size of a person's genitals, along with general questions about different techniques. There is an article in the BBC which addresses all of these issues, and gives advice on how to better enjoy oral […]

Q&A: Leaving Space at the Tip of Condoms

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QUESTION: I’m new to condoms. When I leave space at the tip, is one-half inch enough? I’m worried that if the condom fills up with semen it might back up inside my penis. Any thoughts on this?

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Q&A: Analingus and Safe Anal Sex

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QUESTION: I like to sometimes give rimjobs to my girlfriend and have anal sex with her. I was wondering - if we are both STI free, do I have anything to worry about, in terms of contracting anything? Also, I know anal sex can be dangerous if not done properly, but if done properly, is there any chance of hurting her during anal sex?

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Q&A: Is is Possible to Delay Orgasm with Pills or Techniques?

QUESTION:   My girlfriend achieves orgasm very quickly (within 30 seconds). Is it possible to delay the orgasm with pills or any other techniques? ANSWER:   Men, far more often than women, find that they orgasm more quickly than they would like; as a result, we have more research and anecdotes related to techniques and medications that work […]

Q&A: Why Did My Condom Slip Off?

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QUESTION: I am a sexually active, heterosexual male in a monogamous relationship. Recently, at or near climax during vaginal sex my condom slipped off completely. I didn’t know this until I reached to hold onto it as I withdrew. My girlfriend hadn’t felt it either. It was difficult to retrieve and went near her cervix. Along with condoms, we also use vaginal contraceptive foam, but considering the depth the condom had reached we opted to use Plan B emergency contraceptive as well. My question is two-fold. First, why did this happen. I produce a lot of pre-cum; does this have anything to do with it? I did not lose my erection, the width of my penis is average, and the length is above average. Second, and more importantly, how can this be prevented in the future? I am now distracted by checking the position of my condom. Should I use something like a c-ring to keep my condom in place? I’m happy with my mainstream brand and type of condom otherwise. Any information you could provide me would be most appreciated.

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Q&A: Safe Anal Sex Play

QUESTION: I have a question about safe anal play. I need/want to know if you can hurt or damage yourself in any way by putting something 'too far' up the anus. I just purchased some new anal toys. One that I purchased seems to be a little long which worries me, as I want to […]

Q&A: He is Too Big For Me - What Can I Do to Make Sex Better?

QUESTION: My partner and I recently started having sexual intercourse, and neither one of us are virgins. We are having problems though, as he has a lot of "girth" or circumference to his penis, and I have only been with one other person and so I am not the right size for him. Another problem […]

Q&A: How to Delay Ejaculation

QUESTION: I have been dating my present girlfriend for over 5 months now and I still have trouble lasting during sex. I have not had this problem so severe in the past, with 2 other girlfriends. I was wondering if you know anything I could do to help improve my stamina. I would appreciate any […]