Q&A: Virgins Having Trouble with Vaginal Intercourse

QUESTION: Hi, my partner and I have not been able to have vaginal intercourse. We were both virgins before getting together, but this is ridiculous! At first, he couldn't get an erection. Now he can get one, but when he tries to enter me, it goes away. Perhaps it is how I grasp him to […]

Q&A: How Safe is Analingus (Oral Anal Sex)?

QUESTION: My girlfriend and I have been together monogamously for a long time, and have gotten more experimental with our sex lives. We recently tried analingus for the first time, with me being the "giver" and her the "receiver" of this practice. We took a shower together beforehand, and tried to make her anus and […]

Q&A: Can Stress Really Affect a Man’s Erections?

QUESTION: I have been dating someone for several months. We were getting along very well and were having what I thought [and he said was] satisfying, fulfilling sex a few times a week. After a few months, he started having difficulty reaching/maintaining an erection. Sometimes we would have to stop part way through intercourse because […]

Q&A: Can Frequent Sex Harm Our Emotional Relationship?

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QUESTION: My girlfriend and I have sex generally between two and three times a day. Can this be harmful to our relationship and emotional attachment to each other? If so, are there ways to increase that such as bonding after sex, cuddling, etc.?

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Q&A: How Do I Deal with a Girlfriend Who Spends Too Much Time with Her Ex?

QUESTION: I am having trouble dealing with the amount of time my current partner spends with her ex, who wants her back though she says that she is not interested in being with him again. Repeatedly in the past he has thwarted her attempts to date other people through physical aggression toward the guy, or […]

Q&A: Condoms, Erections and My Partner’s Physical Appearance

QUESTION: After reading a recent Kinsey Confidential column about men having erection problems when using condoms during sex, I notice that I have a similar problem, but it's not all the time. I've noticed that when I use a condom during sex with a female that more fits my preference of her physical appearance, my […]

Q&A: Can You Get Pregnant Even If You’re Using a Condom During Sex?

QUESTION: My girlfriend and I are both virgins. I want to have sex with my girlfriend but she is afraid of getting pregnant. I told her that I will use condoms during sex. My question is, if I am using condoms and if I ejaculate in the condom when my penis is in my girlfriend's […]

Q&A: He is Too Big For Me - What Can I Do to Make Sex Better?

QUESTION: My partner and I recently started having sexual intercourse, and neither one of us are virgins. We are having problems though, as he has a lot of "girth" or circumference to his penis, and I have only been with one other person and so I am not the right size for him. Another problem […]

Q&A: What is the Importance of Sex for a Healthy Relationship?

QUESTION: I am having a relationship problem, and I believe that one of the reasons is because my partner and I are not having sex. I am gay, and I would like to have intercourse with him. He is not opposed to the idea but he is not able to have sex (he is too […]

Q&A: My Boyfriend Is Avoiding Sex

QUESTION: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and have had sex, but lately he seems to be avoiding it. He even seems to avoid kissing. I know he likes me because he tells me I'm beautiful and kisses me on the forehead and cheek. I have talked to him about this […]