Readiness for sex

Picture of a couple kissing on a streetMany young women and men - at some time or another - wonder if they are ready to have sex. And it's not just a one-time thought! Even when two people decide to be sexual together, they may have second thoughts about whether to have sex another time. Then there's the issue of finding a new partner. Even people who have been sexually active for years often ask themselves, when dating a new person, whether this is someone they want to be sexual with, or when they want to be sexual with that person (or how).

In a healthy relationship?

Some questions about sexual health have fairly succint answers (e.g., questions about the effectiveness rates of contraception or whether condoms can protect against certain infections). Other questions, however, require a good deal of personal reflection. Case in point: Many women and men (of all ages) wonder at one time or another whether the relationship that they […]

An Inside Look at Affairs

Philip Weiss, writer for New York Magazine, has an interesting view on why some men have affairs. He interviewed Jennifer Bass and Erick Janssen, from The Kinsey Institute, while doing his research for this in-depth article. It explores virtually every aspect of marriage and cheating that can be combined and analyzed together, and goes into the conversation about […]

Brains are sexy, too…

woman wearing glassesIt's a tale as old as time: a man wants a shallow, beautiful, "easy" woman instead of a nice, respectful woman with brains. Right? That's what I thought. But according to a new study conducted right here at The Kinsey Institute, this tale is just a stereotype.

When it comes to sex, many of us are clueless…

AffectionA new study conducted right here at IU has revealed that most of us probably aren't as sexually-savvy as we had thought. The study, called "The untrained eye: Confusing sexual interest with friendliness", suggests that "college-age men confuse friendly non-verbal cues with cues for sexual interest because the men have a less discerning eye than women".

Q&A: Did her vagina get wider?

QUESTION:  My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for several months now and she has always had felt the same, tightness wise, to me. I had not seen her for two weeks because we have a long distance relationship and it seems her vagina has became wider since the last time that I saw […]

Desktop dating

Kinsey Confidential's Dr. Debby Herbenick and Dr. Bryant Paul from Indiana University give their insights and tips for safe and fun online dating.  Has dating really changed dramatically, or is it just another way to make connections?  Women and men both use the Internet as a tool to meet potential dates as well as a means of maintaining their existing relationships," […]

Understanding Love and Sex - A Valentine’s Day Puzzle

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Here’s a valentine’s day puzzle – what IS the connection between love and sex, and how do you study these hard to explain emotional and physical states that are such an important part of our human experience?

Q&A: It Bothers Me When My Boyfriend Watches Porn

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QUESTION: Sometimes my boyfriend watches porn and I feel intimidated by this. I’ve talked to him about it before and he says I have nothing to worry about. Why do I still feel intimidated?

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Q&A: My Partner is Obsessed with My Breasts!

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QUESTION: My partner is obsessed with my breasts! Though I enjoy the attention, how can I get him to explore other parts of my body?

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