Q&A: Confused About Same-Sex Attraction

QUESTION: I've been dating a man for several years, and I love him. We are sexually active, and we are both relatively satisfied. Along the way I have been interested in other guys from time to time, and many times very physically. Recently however, I've developed feelings it seems for a female friend of mine. […]

Q&A: Experiencing Sexuality Again After Abuse

QUESTION:  I had bad sexual experiences with an ex-boyfriend. He would force me into things I didn't want to do so I was never there physically or mentally. Now, I have a new boyfriend who I have had meaningful and consensual sex with a few times, but he recently has brought to my attention that […]

Q&A: I Had a Dream About a Woman. Am I a Lesbian?

QUESTION: I'm a 21-year old woman. Until recently, I had never had a sex dream. Then I had my first one, but it was about a woman. I have a boyfriend who I've been with for over a year, and I have never had any sexual encounters with another woman. Since this dream, I've begun […]

Q&A: Becoming Orgasmic for Women

QUESTION: I can get all the way up to the brink of an Orgasm but I can't seem to reach one. Any suggestions for why that might be or what I can do about it?ANSWER: Lots of young women have trouble reaching orgasm. At the same time, every woman alive has the capacity to have […]

Q&A: My Friend is Coming On to Me and I Don’t Know What to Do

QUESTION:  I have a close friend who I think might be gay. That does not bother me. What bothers me is that she is always offering to go down on me, cuddle with me, and she often grabs my ass. She also fondles and talks about 3 of our friend's breasts constantly. One night, a […]

Q&A: Female Orgasm and Sensation

QUESTION: Sometimes when orgasming, my vagina will "throb" (it feels like a steady pulse for about 10 seconds) but other times, it will not. I have noticed that it is more likely to "throb" if I am having intercourse and my g-spot is being stimulated but it has also "throbbed" from only clitoral stimulation. My […]

Q&A: Is there a ‘test’ for bi-sexuality?

QUESTION: I have a friend who is having sexual identity problems. Many people say that bi-sexual men are really homosexuals in denial, and that bi-sexual women are heterosexuals with a wild side. Is it possible for a person to be truly bi-sexual and how do they find out where they fit on the Kinsey scale? […]

Q&A: Where do I fall on the Kinsey Scale?

QUESTION:How does one know where he or she falls on the hetrosexual/homosexual rating scale? Is there a test that is available?

ANSWER: The "Kinsey Scale" that you mention is defined like this: 0=exclusively heterosexual behavior and 6=exclusively homosexual behavior. 3's are equally hetero/homosexual. 1's have 'incidental' homosexual contacts and 5's have incidental heterosexual contacts. 2's are primarily heterosexual with some deliberate homosexual experiences and desire, and 4's are the reverse.

Q&A: How to Delay Ejaculation

QUESTION: I have been dating my present girlfriend for over 5 months now and I still have trouble lasting during sex. I have not had this problem so severe in the past, with 2 other girlfriends. I was wondering if you know anything I could do to help improve my stamina. I would appreciate any […]

Q&A: Help for Male Victims of Rape?

QUESTION: Where can a male victim of rape go for counseling or help in general?
ANSWER: In Bloomington, Middle Way House provides 24 hour support for victims of rape, whether they're male or female. They also have a list of therapists in the area who are comfortable working with male victims. Because of the special […]