An Inside Look at Affairs

Philip Weiss, writer for New York Magazine, has an interesting view on why some men have affairs. He interviewed Jennifer Bass and Erick Janssen, from The Kinsey Institute, while doing his research for this in-depth article. It explores virtually every aspect of marriage and cheating that can be combined and analyzed together, and goes into the conversation about […]

Oral Sex Enjoyment

Many people get worried or scared when it comes to participating in oral sex. Questions arise concerning the odor, taste, or size of a person's genitals, along with general questions about different techniques. There is an article in the BBC which addresses all of these issues, and gives advice on how to better enjoy oral […]

Q&A: Anti-Depressants and the Ability to Reach Orgasm

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QUESTION: I’m being treated for depression but I’m worried that the antidepressant may ruin my sex life. Is it true that medications can keep you from having orgasms?

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Q&A: Non-Lubricated Condoms and Bleeding

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QUESTION: Last night, my boyfriend and I had sex and he used a non lubricated condom, which became painful, so I had him stop. This morning when I went to the bathroom I noticed that there was some bleeding, like from a cut or something. Is this something that will heal on its own or if I need to go see my gynecologist?

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Q&A: It Bothers Me When My Boyfriend Watches Porn

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QUESTION: Sometimes my boyfriend watches porn and I feel intimidated by this. I’ve talked to him about it before and he says I have nothing to worry about. Why do I still feel intimidated?

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Q&A: Female Orgasms During Intercourse

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QUESTION: I’m a 22-year-old female, and I’ve never had an orgasm during “standard” sex - only oral. I thought that maybe it was my first partner, but I wasn’t able to achieve it with my second partner either. Is this normal for women?

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Q&A: I am Worried My Penis is Too Small

QUESTION: I am 21 years old. My penis size when flaccid is about 1.5 inches and goes up to 5 inches when erect. My ex-girlfriend left me because she said that my penis size is small when cold. Kindly help, I am really worried and I think that I would never be able to satisfy […]

Q&A: How Do I Get Interested in Sex Again?

QUESTION: My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. Our sex life was really good in the beginning and started decreasing rapidly. By the time that our first anniversary came, we were maybe having sex once a week at the most. I understand that as relationships grow that the sex might decrease […]

Q&A: Why Did My Condom Slip Off?

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QUESTION: I am a sexually active, heterosexual male in a monogamous relationship. Recently, at or near climax during vaginal sex my condom slipped off completely. I didn’t know this until I reached to hold onto it as I withdrew. My girlfriend hadn’t felt it either. It was difficult to retrieve and went near her cervix. Along with condoms, we also use vaginal contraceptive foam, but considering the depth the condom had reached we opted to use Plan B emergency contraceptive as well. My question is two-fold. First, why did this happen. I produce a lot of pre-cum; does this have anything to do with it? I did not lose my erection, the width of my penis is average, and the length is above average. Second, and more importantly, how can this be prevented in the future? I am now distracted by checking the position of my condom. Should I use something like a c-ring to keep my condom in place? I’m happy with my mainstream brand and type of condom otherwise. Any information you could provide me would be most appreciated.

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Q&A: I Can’t Control My Erections

QUESTION: I am a 24 year old male who has been having some problems with sexual performance lately. While having sex I ejaculate more quickly than before and somehow I just can’t control it. And to make matters worse, when having sex for the second time (after about 30 to 40 minutes from the first […]